[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/vztahy-a-my\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/vztahy-a-my\/","headline":"Vztahy a my","name":"Vztahy a my","description":"Jak to m\u00e1te se vztahy? J\u00e1 to m\u00e1m ta, \u017ee si hodn\u011b na\u00a0dobr\u00fdch\u00a0vztaz\u00edch zakl\u00e1d\u00e1m. Nen\u00ed toti\u017e opravdu nic hor\u0161\u00edho, ne\u017e kdy\u017e \u017eijete ve \u0161patn\u00e9m vztahu,","datePublished":"2022-04-14","dateModified":"2023-05-03","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d3163b56da0fbe010a5181dcf7396b9bd721056c768c8d190d293b864efe53fe?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d3163b56da0fbe010a5181dcf7396b9bd721056c768c8d190d293b864efe53fe?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"haris.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/boy-g7bb8f2663_1280_1.png","url":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/boy-g7bb8f2663_1280_1.png","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/vztahy-a-my\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":419,"articleBody":"Jak to m\u00e1te se vztahy? J\u00e1 to m\u00e1m ta, \u017ee si hodn\u011b na\u00a0dobr\u00fdch\u00a0vztaz\u00edch zakl\u00e1d\u00e1m. Nen\u00ed toti\u017e opravdu nic hor\u0161\u00edho, ne\u017e kdy\u017e \u017eijete ve \u0161patn\u00e9m vztahu, kde se jenom\u00a0dus\u00edte\u00a0a tr\u00e1p\u00edte se. Zn\u00e1te ten pocit? Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee n\u011bkoho milujete. Jenom\u017ee st\u00e1le vnit\u0159n\u011b c\u00edt\u00edte, \u017ee to asi nen\u00ed tak \u00fapln\u011b ono, co jste si v\u017edycky p\u0159\u00e1li. m\u011bli jste n\u011bkdy taky vysn\u011bnou l\u00e1sku? Nemysl\u00edm tu d\u011btskou,\u00a0ale\u00a0takovou, o kter\u00e9 jste si mysleli, \u017ee bude dokonal\u00e1\u00a0a \u017ee\u00a0ji chcete takhle \u017e\u00edt. J\u00e1\u00a0jsem\u00a0taky m\u011bla sv\u00e9\u00a0p\u0159edstavy\u00a0o l\u00e1sce a taky o tom,\u00a0jak\u00a0by m\u011bl n\u00e1s partnersk\u00fd vztah vypadat. A to\u00a0samoz\u0159ejm\u011b\u00a0dokonale.\u00a0V\u017edy jsem cht\u011bla\u00a0dokonalost, i\u00a0kdy\u017e\u00a0nyn\u00ed v\u00edm, \u017ee to byla \u00fapln\u00e1 blbost. Dokonalost neexistuje.\u00a0Dokonalost\u00a0by asi ani nebyla dobr\u00e1, proto\u017ee nikdo\u00a0nen\u00ed\u00a0dokonal\u00e1,\u00a0tak ani\u00a0vztah nem\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dokonal\u00fd.\u00a0Nebo\u00a0se m\u00fdl\u00edm?\u00a0Pokud\u00a0jste v milostn\u00e9m vztahu, tak jak\u00fd je? Zkuste si polo\u017eit tuto ot\u00e1zku a\u00a0sami\u00a0si\u00a0na n\u00ed\u00a0odpov\u011bzte. V\u00edm, \u017ee to asi nebude t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si odpov\u011bd\u011bt, i kdy\u017e si odpov\u00edd\u00e1te jen sami sob\u011b. M\u011b samotn\u00e9 to docela dlouho trvalo, proto\u017ee b\u00fdt si jist\u00e1 ve vztahu je docela slo\u017eit\u00e9, ale v\u00e1\u017en\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.J\u00e1 si pamatuji, \u017ee jsme v\u017edycky tou\u017eila po kr\u00e1sn\u00e9m\u00a0partnersk\u00e9m\u00a0vztahu\u00a0p\u0159esn\u011b\u00a0takov\u00e9m, jak\u00e9 jsou t\u0159eba v\u00a0poh\u00e1dk\u00e1ch\u00a0s\u00a0dobr\u00fdm koncem.\u00a0Jist\u011b\u00a0si to ale dok\u00e1\u017eete\u00a0p\u0159edstavit. A\u00a0jist\u011b\u00a0taky v\u00edte, jak jsme byla hodn\u011b\u00a0naivn\u00ed,\u00a0proto\u017ee\u00a0v re\u00e1lu jist\u011b takov\u00fd dokonal\u00fd\u00a0vztah\u00a0neexistuje. I kdy\u017e bych si ho\u00a0samoz\u0159ejm\u011b\u00a0moc p\u0159\u00e1la. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b,\u00a0ale\u00a0ji\u017e\u00a0jsem\u00a0sta\u0159\u00ed a taky o dost moud\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed. A u\u017e tedy i v\u00edm, \u017ee dokonal\u00fd vztah neexistuje, i\u00a0kdy\u017e\u00a0si to mo\u017en\u00e1\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00fd\u00a0p\u00e1ry mysl\u00edm. A to si\u00a0mysl\u00ed, kdy\u017e\u00a0jsou\u00a0na za\u010d\u00e1tku milostn\u00e9ho vztahu a vid\u00ed\u00a0je\u0161t\u011b\u00a0st\u00e1le p\u0159es r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 br\u00fdle. To je vztah je\u0161t\u011b t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159\u00a0dokonal\u00fd, proto\u017ee nevid\u00edme chyby toho druh\u00e9ho, kter\u00e9ho milujeme. Nebo nem\u00e1m pravdu? Neb\u00fdt\u00a0po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed\u00a0zamilovanosti,\u00a0tak\u00a0se nezrod\u00ed ani\u00a0nikdy\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd vztah, To mi v\u011b\u0159te.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.9\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Vztahy a my","item":"https:\/\/www.haris.cz\/vztahy-a-my\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]